No, people with the worst pasts do end up with creating the best futures! If we use our past as our strength, we can have a beautiful present and future life. It's all about mindset and using your past to create a better future!
wow i love this so much. i'm so often trying to define myself or say, "this is me, this is who i am". but people are complex and layered, and they change and grow and adapt. don't be so easily defined. defy the definition.