Understand it doesn't mean I am not a thoughtful person, as I'm processing even piece of information independently. That takes more time than a cursory consideration . Tap the link to check out fidgets and sensory toys!
I am an enfj-I really hate small talk and chit chat. I may not talk about myself but I do want to know about you. Then when I trust you enough to know that you won't betray me, I may talk about myself. I love listening more than talking.