If you have to give yourself a 30 day relationship "challenge" which is comprised of things that should just be given and not even thought twice about, you're doing it wrong. He deserves all of these things everyday, period.
This es Chimin. Chimin es a idol who hasn’t an grown. Water your an Chimin to help him an grow or he will not grow and be an good idol. Take care of your an Chimin.
I saw a situation like this between two coworkers (a manager and a 15yr old girl) and went to management...they did the same thing-they fired her, I assume, because it's easier than finding a new manager.