The truth hurts. A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people's true colors.
If a person doesn’t want to take responsibility for the consequences of their actions, they may try to blame others. Don’t accept blame or try to fix things for them when you’ve done nothing wrong
I think I'm going to adopt it as my mantra. There's no point in worrying about what others are doing when I can't change it. Stressing over things outside of my control is not helpful so I'm trying to focus on myself instead.
Not my circus. Not my monkeys. <-- This is a Polish idiom ("nie moj cyrk, nie moje malpy") for "not my problem". Every time you feel yourself getting pulled into other peoples drama, repeat these words: not my circus, not my monkeys.