You don't prevent things that you don't want from ever happening again by continuing to discuss them. The way to avoid unwanted things is to get in a good feeling place and practice that and practice that and practice that and practice that.
Life is too short to waste it with somebody who always sees only shortcomings in you, and always tries to ''fix'' you, The problem is not you, it's them, because they themselves refuse to see a multitude of their own faults, and project them on others instead. Let the be, chances are they'll do it to the next person also, but you deserve better! ............. Angela from www.calligraphybyangela.com
As an only child in a dysfunctional family of deniers and enablers, through time I suffered with acute loneliness through emotional isolation and feeling unwanted and misunderstood...it is a terrible poverty and a void I tried to fill with binge eating...then up-chucking it up.