For those special Step-Moms who do not get the respect deserved, its always those biological moms that feel threatened by your big caring heart that try to make stepmoms out to be who they deny they are(bad mom). Speaking from experience.
Even though I didn't birth 3 of my 4 children, I have 4 kiddos & a sexy loving husband whom I love more than life! I tell them that I was blessed bc I got to choose them! No steps in our house, as steps are only for walking on!
I'll still continue to stepparent & love my stepdaughter the way I have been. Because your daughter sees your ugly ways and tells us all about them. You're only burying yourself sweetheart. She's sees what an ugly person you are.