If you are involved with an abusive man, you man spend a lot of your time trying to figure out what is wrong with you, rather than what is wrong with him. If he gets along well with other people and impresses them with his generosity, sense of humor, and friendliness, you may wind up wondering What is it about me that sets him off? Other people seem to think he's great. Most abusive men put on a charming face for their communities, creating a sharp split between their...
