being cheated on
So very true. Why hold on to the things or people who are just going to hurt you and not love you. God wants us to be forgiving, not holding on to bitterness or anger. God said to leave the 99 to find the 1 that was lost! Not to say, oh let them go they will find their way. I dont need that hurt anymore, I am letting go.
A relationship isn’t a test so why #cheat? Actually it is, and if you #cheat and get caught you have failed and get kicked out. If you have cheated and haven’t been caught can you continue in your #relationship built on a web of lies? Web being the key word because eventually you will find yourself all caught up being approached by a black widow! - See more at: http://www.xclusivetouch.co.uk/page/blog/can-you-forgive-and-forget#sthash.YKgmyWGN.dpuf
I've tried to figure it out for well over a year now and no, it's not an innocent mistake or a misunderstanding. There is not "another side" or more to the story. You simply suck at being human, genuine, and at actually caring even half as much as you pretend to care -- the entire top echelon of your cult ...& some of the mindless followers as well.
"If someone cheats on you, it's okay if you don't stop loving him immediately. I felt like an idiot when my feelings for him didn't go away the moment I found out about the betrayal. I learned eventually that that was okay and I wasn't a failure of a woman for loving a cheater. It can take your heart a bit to catch up with your brain." —Margo B.