In our house. only hugs, smiles and warm fuzzy feelings are allowed. (remember that little book - all I ever needed to know I learned in Kindergarten =- yeah that is what my baby is learning now -warm fuzzy vs cold prickly).
Never confuse happiness with comfortability. To be truly happy suggests that growth is taking place somewhere. The best part about life is. Sometimes happiness is a feeling. Other times it's a decision.