No one is entitled to know your business if you choose not to volunteer the information. Mature people accept that. Tiny, jealous people rush to judgement, looking for or creating nefarious possibilities because they can't handle being out of the loop.
I forgive, but I also learn a lesson. I won't hate you, but I'll never get close enough for you to hurt me again. I can't let my forgiveness become foolishness. Forgiveness with healthy boundaries in place.
The goal is always to help, but never hurt. Getting hurt by the embarrassment of trying to help, teaches you where you stand. The lesson now is to learn to walk again. Hard to understand how people don't see how easy a lesson this is to learn.