I’m married. My wife’s affectionate and takes care of herself. She loves animals, kids, traveling and helping others. She works hard but doesn’t let her job control her life. Family is important to her. As a couple we never let the other carry a burden. Things like housework and raising our kid are split as evenly as possible. Even if she’s frustrated when I’m anxious or my PTSD flares up, she rarely shows it and does her best to make me feel better and I do the same for her.