Trying to fill in someone else's shoes is futile. The person will at best be a shadow of the one who shoes they are trying to fill. It is best to have new shoes (their own) rather than live in the shadow of another
Of course it's George - I couldn't help it. A good belly laugh will dissolve stress so fast and kick up the endorphin levels. If you're in a depressed state go watch a comedy or get together with someone who's always laughing. It's contagious.