When I see people running for shelter when it's raining, I laugh a little. Rain feels so stinkin' good! My hair gets all curly and it feels like something is tickling your skin and every nerve you have. Why would you wanna get away from it?
Trying to fill in someone else's shoes is futile. The person will at best be a shadow of the one who shoes they are trying to fill. It is best to have new shoes (their own) rather than live in the shadow of another