It's your choice, our Lord will never force himself on anyone!!
Defend your spouse as they pray. Be a covering for each other and make sure your Faith shields are big and strong! Also it is so important to help each other sharpen your swords. That is speaking The WORD of GOD into circumstances that helps to bring Hope in God's Victory! Remind each other of past victories, that sharpens your swords too.
warrior angel~~ the word of God is more powerful,and sharper than any two edged sword...
James 1:12 And blessed are the woman who stands firm, too!