be gentle. fill yourself up with love instead of hate. fill yourself up with art, books, knowledge, experiences. surround yourself with people that have nothing but love to give. this things, they are important. they will help you learn how to love
Be picky about who you keep around you. Personalities do rub off naturally: i don't have an image to uphold, but at the same time i know who and what i want, so if you conflict with that, we won't work.