Find the things that stir your affections for Christ, and saturate your life in them. And find the things that rob you of that affection, and walk away from them. That's the Christian life as easy as I can make it for you.
"A person who is serious about their walk with God, will be serious about you. Your relationship with Him is far too important to allow another to drag you down with them. Keep your standards up, & a real Man of God will show up!
Religion or Spirituality verses Relationship. Self righteousness verses Grace, righteousness in Christ. Galatians I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!