I don't see how it could ever "accidently" happen, any man that cheats is an ass face. And the " women" he did it with is no better if not worse. Sooo glad I have a decent guy, stupid sometimes, but a good guy.
May your character preach more loudly than you words. Who you are and your values have the ability to influence others and the world. Actions speak louder than words so therefore who you are speaks louder than what you have to say.
Live your best life to find your best love. When you are enjoying your life and doing things you love, you give out an energy that says: “I love myself and I love my life.” This will draw people to you, including your ideal partner.