"There will be times in your life when you have to choose between being loved and being respected. Always pick being respected. That love without respect was always fleeting - but that respect could grow into real, lasting love." Soooo so true
I'm done putting up with this. Some people have a narcissistic view of friendship. As long as you do what I say, we can be friends. Or, I'm your pretend friend because it makes me feel good about myself to say I have friends.
Letting go isn't blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts and doesn't leave emptiness, hurt or sadness. Letting go isn't about loss and it's not defeat. To let go is to cherish memories, and overcome and move on.
” When another person makes you suffer, it is because he/she suffers deeply within self, and his/her suffering is spilling over. He/she does not need punishment; He/she needs HELP. _Thich Naht Hanh” Ooh but he/she can make it hard to want to help.