Until we can come to the place of putting Jesus first in this area, we will never be completely satisfied with any relationship that we have. True contentment of these feelings comes when we are on fire for Jesus, the One who gave His life for us. Do you want to fall in love, do you want to feel His touch, & do you want to feel Him running through your heart & soul? If so, then have a love affair with Jesus first. Work on your relationship with Him, and everything else will fall into place.