"If you see something beautiful in someone, speak it." -Ruthie Lindsey It's advice that can almost never go wrong. It will make the person feel better; it will help you feel better. It will, quite literally, make the world a little better.
That is so important. Love is never deceitful. It isn't deceitful to your spouse. And it isn't deceitful to your children. If there is deceit in a relationship, it is not true love, rather it is self-serving and selfish for personal gain.