One thing at a time. Know the problem. Learn to listen. Learn to ask. Distinguish sense from nonsense. Accept change as inevitable. Say it simple. Be calme. How to work better, ten simple things that make a huge difference.
They say love is blind. I disagree. Infatuation is blind. Love is all-seeing and accepting. Love is seeing the flaws and blemishes and accepting them. Love is accepting the bad habits and mannerisms, and working around them.